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Snagged from [livejournal.com profile] loveflyfree:

What was the #1 song the day you were born? Google the date and #1 song and then post your #1 song on your LJ - preferably with a Youtube vid if you can find one!

The 5th Dimension: Age of Aquarius/Let the Sunshine In
(I was born at the dawning of the Age of Aquarius, Age of Aquariuuuuuuusss)

Date: 2010-02-06 03:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] helliongoddess.livejournal.com
Ok this is getting really, truly weird. I have written you a message, rather than continue to spam jedi's journal (and to preserve what little privacy I try to maintain, for reasons I will explain in the msg.)

Yeah, it is very good for him to play - both the practicing and having the friends with the band has been really good for him. We had both gotten way too isolated there for a while, and unlike me, he is a natural extrovert.

What's ironic is he has a computer-based learning program for the guitar now up in his rock-man-cave in the new house, and he spends hours and hours up there alone practicing (plus he has practice usually one night a week.) When I first started writing and rp-ing on LJ, it almost brought us to the brink of a separation, because he couldn't cope with me wanting to have time to IM with my friends, be alone to write, etc. He was really kind of threatened by me suddenly having this activity and friends that didn't involve him, and took my time away from him, even though it was making me incredibly happy, and pulling me out of a really deep depression.

Now he is doing the same thing, and I am secretly cheering, "yay!, now you see what I was doing, you have a life and something to do, and see, we DON'T have to be glued at the hip all the time to be happy, do we?" I'm so glad I just kept doing what I wanted to do and was patient, and gave him time to figure it out.

He actually asked me a couple of times back then, "you're not going to run off and leave me for one of these women, are you?" "No," I said patiently,"don't be ridiculous," while I thought, "unless you can't quit being such an insecure child..." Men. He's six years younger than me. He's still growing up. ^______^

Date: 2010-02-08 12:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sharpeslass.livejournal.com
Got the message and will reply - have a very overdue valentines smut to finish before anything else gets done!! *glomps*
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